"Life is not about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself."

Thursday, July 17, 2008

Say What You Need To Say......

Yes, that is a brilliant song by John Mayer. Loving the title right now, because that is how I am feeling...say what you need to say. Not me. Nope. I pretty much say what I need to say all the time. For the purpose of this post I am talking about the person(s) leaving mean, hateful comments on my blog. You know who you are. And you know what? It is OK. If it is what you need to do to feel better about yourself then fine. There is not much I can do about it because I don't have any plans to make my blog private. I will delete your comments so truly you are just wasting your time, but, hey, say what you need to say. Is it mean? Yep. Is it hurtful? A little bit. Is it childish and cowardly? Absofrickinlutely! But, I am a big girl...as you are fond of pointing out.

For my friends who are wondering what this is all about, I have been receiving some nasty comments here lately. Actually they are aimed at me and my friends. See, in this person's eyes, we are all "fat chicks" who "spend too much time on the computer creating a fantasy life to fill some void" we apparently have in our lives. Yeah, I do spend a lot of time on the computer. My job depends on it first of all. I have a lot of family and friends out of state and out of the country...it is the quickest, easiest way to keep up on each other's lives. And, yeah, I am fat, big surprise there! But, I am working on it. And someday I won't be fat...but I will still be keeping up with all of my amazing friends here! Yeah, I am fat right now. You know what else I am? FRICKIN FABULOUS!!! 

It would seem to me that a person who spends all of their time stalking random stranger's blogs leaving mean, evil comments is the one who has a void to fill. I can assure you I have a life full of love and happiness, not that you will ever believe it. Doesn't matter to me. As I said in the beginning of this post...say what you need to say.

And to you, hateful commenter, you may not be fat (though most likely you are), but what you are is ugly...inside. And that, my dear, is far more tragic than being fat.

Just sayin'......


Tina ~ Blessings Friends. said...

Kristen, girl you are gorgeous. You are just as beautiful on the outside as you are on the inside. I can't imagine that somebody who takes the time to send you an ugly comment, has the audacity to make a comment about being on a computer. How exactly did they get that comment to you? Ohhhhh, they must have been spending to much time on the computer, obviously bored enough to make a rude comment. Dear God, help those who put themselves so far above others, for they need to take a damn good look at themselves.

Anonymous said...

Ah, jealousy, bitterness, and insecurity rear their ugly heads again, I see.

I have nothing but pity for those who try and tear other people down to make themselves feel better.

Keep on doin' what you do, and bein' who you are, and let those who can't handle it wallow in their own sick misery!!!

Love you MUCH!!!

BonnieRose said...

bravo to u.. love all u shared.. I too was the point of cyber harassers.. so I know what u are going thru.... I chose to make my blog pvt simply becuz I didn't want to have this person have access to my life anymore.. so I made some changes. Now she can no longer read my blog, which is just fine with me. For me, having a pvt blog works.. but yes, i agree with all u said. This person is ugly on the inside, that's for sure.. high fives ya!

Terri and Bob said...

JEEPERS! I love you just the way you are! Stupid mean blogger.

Ugly is such a mild word for someone who doesn't take responsibility for their words.

Kristen, I am sorry, I feel like I might have "helped" this person maybe by leading them to you... if so, you know that was never my intention.

Your post was ROCKING.

lacey said...

WTH!? Geez Kristen..so sorry about all that...but kudos to you for giving them hell for it- and you are right, those kind of people must not be happy or def. have some void in their life to act this way. I used to know someone who was like this and i've always said and believed that karma will come back and bite them in the ass HARD. :)

Anonymous said...

Kristen, you go girl! I do not know you but I love your spirit. I love reading blogs for enjoyment. Whoever writes such drivel must be extremely bored and unsatisfied with his or her life. I once did a blog for our PTA but I had to stop because I caught a lot of the same type of sh#t. I would not take it to seriously. This goes on a lot.
Hugs from Texas,

Krys72599 said...

I just found your blog through Jeanette's... And I have to say that what I read really ticks me the heck off - who do they think they are, judging you, insulting you? I don't know you at all, but just 'cause I can, I'll be visiting to catch up on your blog... If you're Jeanette's blog buddy, you must be a nice girl and your blog must be fun to read!